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This is actually such a crucial part of healing from neglect and abuse and I have to add to this.
Because indeed, people who like you will not roll their eyes and sigh at the idea of accommodating your needs, they will value your voice and be upset with you about injustice done to you, not at you for "being difficult". They will be happy when you find a way to live a better life, and help you to get there. If you are struggling, someone who loves you wants to see you smile, not tell you to smile because "you have it so good".
[image: tweet by overlyxclusive: "when people love you they find joy in making life easier for you"]
me when i remember the show's overall arc was about will graham's becoming but also, in tandem, hannibal's undoing ......... the untouchable, austere, inhuman person suit slowly becoming more & more undone & mortal all because of something so human as LOVE!!!! will resists his own becoming the whole way through and although hannibal's comparatively much more willing to indulge himself, we still see that he tries and tries to retreat behind his own fortresses whenever he's startled by his own compassion for will, when he tries and tries to find ways to not let this inconvenient bone-deep feeling for will rooted in his chest be so all-consuming, be so reducing ... until eventually, he gives up and accepts his fall.
the great hannibal lecter!!! finds himself at his knees in the dirty snow just for the chance that will might come to him again. the monster whittled down to only a man, after all .... i'm gnawing at my own hands wtf they make me fucking sick!!!!! will, a man who knows he's a monster and slowly accepts that ... and hannibal, a monster who discovers that he's a man .....
Let me be the miserable wretch to whom the caring lead the disbelieving, that they might see the wounds and know how much of a human being's humanity three furry boys can take with them.
This video, by an ER vet, reaffirms what the therapist above is saying from the veterinary side. I rewatch it, and her video on euthanasia, whenever the grief over Sully and Alphi gets too bad.
just watched the rosemary’s baby remake. not great, not terrible. jason isaacs was sorely underused (if you get jason isaacs let him chew all the scenery!!!) but he was very sexy and evil with his cigars and his single earring. i approve.
I second all of this but will add I also needed more of bearded Jason Isaacs specifically.
People have written a lot of touchy-feely pieces on this subject but I thought I’d get right to the heart of the matter
This is 1000% more motivating than every preachy “real writers write every day” post on all of Tumblr.
I call this the “two cakes” rule and remind myself of it when I start comparing myself to other people.
whenever i’m giving my own work shit compared to others my husband says “two cakes”, it tends to help
the women in my bluetooth headphones sounds mad at me :(
It just doesn’t add up. If no one is mad at me, how come everyone ACTS like they’re mad at me?
I literally never thought my life was going to get better and now I’m on a path that makes me excited to be alive.